If you know anything about how the human body works, a dildo seems pretty obvious. Like the real-world versions of them, dildos don’t have any bells or whistles as most vibrators do.
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Here’s everything you could possibly need to know about how to use a dildo, whether you already own one or are about to buy one for the first time.
The Dildo Basics
Get The Right Size Dildo
Dildos come in many different shapes and sizes, just like penises. There is a reason for all that variety: this is pretty much your only chance to find the perfect peen and bring it into your life with your wallet.
So, if you know you like a wider waist, buy a wider dildo. Or, if you want to use it for anal stimulation, look for a shape that is narrow at the tip and widens as it goes down.
Think About The Material
Unlike penises, dildos can be made of many different things. “They can be pricey, but it’s better to buy the best dildo you can afford because it will last longer in the long run,” says Pitagora.
Body-safe silicone is the best choice because it doesn’t have pores and is easy to clean (you can sterilize it by putting it in boiling water). But you can also buy one made of glass or metal if you want something that looks like modern art and feels very smooth, or if you like playing with temperature.
Pitagora also says to pay close attention to any bumps and ridges on the dildo: Does this model have a shaft that is all smooth or one that is rough? And do you think that will be good for your vagina?
Pitagora says, “There is no right or wrong way to choose textures and shapes.” “I think you should go to a store that sells sex toys and try out a few of them. Follow your gut and choose the one that draws you. Or, shop online slowly and try to buy from a site with reviews so you can see what other people have said about the product.”
Lube It Up
You can use a dildo pretty much however you want: during masturbation or sex with a partner, as long as they agree. Use lube no matter what. Even if your chosen D is already smooth, lubricant will make it even smoother and help you get excited, whether you’re alone or with someone else. In other words, don’t let dildo lubrication keep you up at night!
Use It Correctly
If you plan to use this dildo with more than one person, put a condom on it just like you would with a real penis.
“If your dildo is made of porous materials, you must always use a condom,” says Dr. Deb Laino, a sex therapist, and educator. So, if it’s made of something that’s soft and jelly-like, wrap it up. If you don’t, you or your partner could get an infection or an STD.
The other rule for dildo, which is just as important, is the same rule for all sex toys: If it was just in your anus, don’t put it in your mouth or vagina. Bacteria that live in or on one part of the body can spread to other parts and cause an infection. Because of this, it’s important to clean a dildo very well before using it for different things or with different people.
Clean The Dildo
Silicone dildos are easy to clean because all you have to do is put them in boiling water for a few minutes and they’re clean. Dr. Laino says that you can wash dildos made of glass, metal, plastic, or skin-safe rubber with warm water and mild, unscented soap. No matter what your dildo is made of, make sure it is completely dry before putting it away to avoid (gag) mold.